Hey people! It’s Mars. You may know me as Mariah, or “one of the Tobins”. Any way you want to refer to me works… as long as there is kindness in your heart! I have been around the community for as long as I’ve been breathing but didn’t really branch out of my home theatre/school until my twenties. I’ve only done a handful of projects at Conejo… but I’ve loved every minute of it! For a long time, I was scared to death of getting myself out there and I had forgotten just how important being a part of theatre was to me. I am so grateful to have been welcomed into such a beautiful community.

My first memory with Conejo Players is my elementary school shuttling us to see Bugsy Malone Jr… I was just happy to get out of school for the day. In 2010, my mom took me to see Kiss Me Kate after we did Taming of the Shrew with our Summer Classics in the Park. The show played in winter, it was FREEZING. By the end of the first act the audience had scooted ourselves to the middle of the room like penguins huddling for warmth. The second act opens with ‘Too Darn Hot’… we all got a great laugh. I got a chance to watch my mom in a couple shows and fell in love with the people, passion, and art that Conejo inspired. It took me a couple of years after, but I finally got an in! In 2019 I came back from college after a not-so-great year and got an opportunity to work backstage on Avenue Q, I sang a little (very scary!) in the 2021 Backwards Broadway Concert and then I stage managed Hotbed Hotel in 2025.
I didn’t have a clue what I would do next. I stage managed Annie at another theatre but promised myself that the next time my name was in a program, I would be on stage. One day, my wife Kaitlin and I were talking, and she mentioned me trying out for Steel Magnolias. I’ve been in love with the show since I was a little girl watching my mom play Ouiser along with all her friends. I had convinced myself there wasn’t a chance in the world that I would be selected for a show like this, but when your wife is telling you to audition… you listen. The auditions and callbacks were swarmed with so much talent. But thank goodness I checked my phone that night in the Taco Bell drive-thru! Two things came to mind. On one hand, I’m Shelby in this amazing show surrounded by amazing people! On the other hand, I’ve got a lot of learning to do! I think one of the most challenging parts about a show like this is making sure it’s real. Because it is. This story has been told many times but lived a thousand more.
I am forever grateful to be a part of such a beautiful story surrounded by beautiful people. I am grateful for my family and my wife who encourage and support me no matter what. I am grateful to the community and for everyone I haven’t gotten to meet yet.
















